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Showing posts with label Tough. Show all posts
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Saturday, October 26, 2013

Kentucky Tough Mudder Here I Come!

Tomorrow I’m heading to Kentucky!

I’ve never been and I have NO idea what to expect except horses, and horse racing and, umm horses. Oh! and Jim Bean! Isn’t whiskey big in Kentucky?

Anyway, I digress.

I’m going to run in my 7th –oh crap I’ve run SIX TOUGH MUDDERS — Tough Mudder.

Remember when I ran my first one last year? Look how young and naive I was …

That’s Carrie, Jimmy and I in our post-Mudder glow.

I really thought I’d never, ever, do it again.

But just 7 months later we were back at it and this time we brought Bobby.

Then Carrie decided she needed a THIRD baby so she temporarily left the team but that didn’t stop Jimmy, Bobby and me. We decided to see how Mudders were done on the West Coast.

Then Jimmy had the great idea to try 2 mudders back-to-back and I insanely agreed to give it a shot.

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That, I can HONESTLY say, I  will never, EVER do again.

Then I jetted off to St. Louis to run with Kim and her team.

 At each and every one of these events I’ve learned something about myself. I’ve met amazing people, overcame challenges, and had fun — like LOADS of fun.

I know lots of people don’t get it. Why would you sign up and PAY to run 12 miles, crawl in the mud and torture yourself? What do you have to prove?

Nothing.

Sure, the first time I did it I wanted to prove to myself I could, but now?

Now I do it because I can.

Plus I just LOVE being around supportive, active people. It’s energizing.

This time I’ll be wearing the goPro on my chest –I got the new Hero3 and it’s much thinner so I think I can manage it there — to capture what I can.

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Jimmy is joining me again along with Tiger, Megan, Ann and Alan. It’s going to be awesome! I can’t wait to see everyone!


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A Tough Mudder Weekend, Sensational Sunday and Unmotivated Monday All in One

I don’t even know where to begin. I finally have a moment to sit at my desk and my head is spinning. The past 3 days have been insane.

Let’s see … Friday I left bright and early for Lexington, KY. It was finally time to run a Tough Mudder with Ann and Megan, the winners of my Tough Mudder Madness contest. But first I got to spend the day with these amazing people.

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From left to right that’s Jimmy, Tiger, me, Emmie, and Alan.

Emmie was our gracious host, acting as Lexington tour guide and letting us all crash at her house. She took us to the racetrack and a fabulous restaurant, but I’ll share that all on TheUnworldlyTravelers when I get a chance. If I go into too many details this post will be a novel. Plus I’m on the clock as Little Bean is napping.

Anyway, the next day the Tough Mudder team was ready. Well, as ready as you can be on a cold October day facing 12 miles and 21 obstacles.

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I was REALLY cold but super excited to be doing my seventh Mudder.

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The course was tough and the weather wasn’t helping but we gave it our all.

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Not everyone was able to finish the course but I don’t want to focus on that. Everyone on this Mudder team did their absolute best. We all faced fears, took on the challenge and worked together as a team.

It was an AMAZING experience and I’m SO proud of everyone.

The next day (Sunday) I woke up bright and early for my 7 a.m. flight making it home in time to take this guy to his best friend’s birthday bowling party.

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Then we went grocery shopping for the week.

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The rest of Sunday we just chilled as a family. It was so nice to make dinner and eat with the family. The Husband left for tennis practice afterwards  and The 8-year-old and I fell asleep on the couch watching the Food Network.

That’s why I didn’t blog last night.

I was exhausted.

This morning I had to take the 2-year-old to the doctor for what we thought was a crazy allergic reaction but what may have been the first stage of another nasty stomach bug. The poor little guy has been camping out all morning with his water, animal crackers and Thomas on the iPad.

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Me? Well I’m in my typical post-event funk. I feel like I have a million things to do and no time (or motivation) to do them. So I decided to cook something creative for lunch to cheer myself up.

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That’s a kabocha squash chili I made this morning. I’m hoping to get the recipe up on GreenLiteBites sometimes in the next two days but with a doctor appointment tomorrow and speaking engagement, I’m not so sure.

Oh! and I lost my damn Fitbit! I don’t know how. The last time I saw it it was clipped to my bra and when I went to check my steps last night it was gone. It can be anywhere between Lexington and here so I really have no hope of finding it. I’m wondering if it fell off while sleeping in the plane all crunched over. Who knows.

OK, I’m going to run. Miraculously the 2-year-old is still sleeping so I’ll start prepping some kabocha chili photos now. Maybe I can squish that one in too! :)


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Sunday, September 22, 2013

St. Louis Tough Mudder Recap

All the fear and trepidation about flying to a strange city specifically to run a Tough Mudder with complete strangers was eased the moment I met Kim (and her team) in person on Friday night. They were so warm, welcoming and friendly. We gave each other a great big hug and bonded while decorating shirts for the Mudder.

Saturday we woke up at the crack of dawn and headed to (what I would describe as) the middle of nowhere.

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Cell service was sketchy so I wasn’t able to post many updates. I may be the only person who likes when that happens because I get to completely disconnect — something I don’t do nearly enough.

Here’s our crazy team as we head to the start line in our matching blue shirts.

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There were eight of us: From left to right below, Donna, Liz, Sheila, Kim, Adam, me, Emily, and Cory.

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Kim was really excited and EXACTLY how I pictured her from our email exchanges.

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It’s so funny and many won’t believe me, but for as many people I meet from the site who tell me “I feel like I know you” the feeling is usually mutual. I don’t hold much back on the blog, so if we chat in email or on Facebook it’s me, like really me.

During the event we had our own personal photographer.  Megan, Kim’s daughter, was snapping from the spectator points. She was amazing!

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This was my sixth Tough Mudder and it was the muddiest one yet!

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And let me tell you, there’s something extra special squishy and sticky about Missouri mud.

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We sloshed through, slipping and sliding.

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And that’s how teams bond during a Mudder.

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Kim, Donna and I chatted a bunch on the course. It was so great getting to know these amazing people.

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There were a lot of smiles.

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But we were working our tails off.

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And the sense of accomplishment was rampant in the best way possible as we tacked obstacle after obstacle.

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Everyone did an amazing job and we conquered each obstacle as a team. After 11 miles and 16 obstacles we were exhausted and the thought of making it up the half pipe was daunting.

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But we dived right in! That’s me taking the leap …

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And getting up on my very first try!

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We worked as a team and got everyone up that darn pipe. This is Kim’s first and only attempt as well!

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Megan snapped so many pictures I just had to turn it into an animated gif for her.

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We totally rocked it!

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Here we are in the half pipe afterglow as the finish line was in sight.

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This is my favorite picture of the day. I was so proud and happy for Kim I can’t think about it without tearing up.

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She did it.

She shoved herself out of her comfort zone, overcame her fears and accomplished something she never thought possible.

I’m so proud of our team and I feel honored I got to be a part of their first Tough Mudder.

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Note: That Guy in the back with the open mouth totally photobombed us and it CRACKS me up ever time I see it.

The whole experience has renewed my love of the Tough Mudder. After taking a few months off after the Double Header I was having my doubts but it was just as fun as I remembered. I can’t wait until Kentucky next month!

My other Tough Mudder events:

Tough Mudder PA 2021 – My First one! Tough Mudder Florida 2012Tough Mudder SoCal 2013(and 5) Tough Mudder Mid Atlantic – My Double Header!

Huge shout out to froyo18 on Instagram for all the photos! Thanks, Megan!


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Thursday, September 19, 2013

Tough Mudder St. Louis Here I Come! + This Weekend’s Quote

Have you ever embarked on an adventure while thinking “Is this really happening? Is this REALLY happening?“ 

That’s how I feel this very moment as I sit in an airport diner waiting for my omelet.

I’m headed to St. Louis today to run a Tough Mudder tomorrow. You may remember my Tough Mudder Madness post this past spring when I held a contest to run a Tough Mudder with whoever was willing to enter.

I got a few takers and have a crazy schedule I’m trying to keep for the end of the year.

I ended up canceling Buffalo because of a speaking engagement at BlogHer and I’m not sure I’ll be able to do Tri-State but there was no way I’m missing Kentucky, North Carolina or this weekend’s St. Louis.

I’m running each of those events with people who are very special to me and I can’t wait to experience the Mudder with each and every one of them.

This weekend I’ll be hanging with Kim and her posse.

That was Kim back in March — click here to read her introduction post.  I have watched her transform (not only physically but emotionally and mentally) on her blog Zero to Mudder …

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and I simply can not believe I’ll be giving her a big ‘ol hug later today.

Kim wrote me this email a few days ago and I asked her permission to share it with you because I think she hits the nail on the head about taking care of “us” first (especially moms.) I can’t read it without crying …

I am so grateful for you Roni – you have no idea. Grateful isn’t a big enough word to describe what I am regarding your initial inspiration just by being you – and then selecting me to do this crazy venture with – to saying encouraging words as I freak out.

They say that people can be inspired by each other and that small things we do can inspire others. I honestly can say I have never been inspired in such a selfish way before. I would be inspired to do things for others all the time but to be inspired to do something just for me??? Oh no…. never! For as long as I can remember, I put everyone above myself on the “list” of who to care for. Typical mom, typical wife or supporter, right?? For THE FIRST TIME EVER IN MY LIFE I am NUMBER ONE on my list. And I love it! It was one hell of a feat to get here but I am NOT giving it up!

As I worked out with my amazing trainer last night who calmed my fears about the Mudder obstacles and gave me great tips on running I looked around the gym and this is what I saw:

My daughter was there because she “needed to run” and work out her stress (she’s a new college student)My husband was there because he has been inspired by my journey and wants to join me

Then it hit me, I realized that because I put myself FIRST, I have given my loved ones the best ME I can be and in turn, they are learning how to care for THEMSELVES TOO!

Pretty funny how we can read about other people doing that “put yourself first and you will be a better person for your loved ones” and think, “Yes, but I can’t because” …

Well, screw THAT! I am now a different woman than I was in February when this CRAZY ride began. I am NOT where I “hoped” I would be physically but I discovered something BIGGER and BETTER. This journey was more than just working out,  it was conquering a mental beast that was MUCH bigger than my “weight” struggle. I was so focused on calories, exercise and “all or nothing” attitude that I stumbled here and during all of this  I found my stride, I found a lifestyle that is working for me, and it feels fantastic. I have found my power, I have found my moxy, and I have discovered that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. And I have just scratched the surface of who I can be. That my dear friend  is why I still blame YOU for all of this. Because YOU have been inspiring me for YEARS and the switch finally came on in my life. So “grateful” isn’t a big enough word to describe what I am feeling Roni.

This….

“Then it hit me, I realized that because I put myself FIRST, I have given my loved ones the best ME I can be and in turn, they are learning how to care for THEMSELVES TOO!”

Have truer words ever been spoken?!

That’s today’s weekend quote and I want all the moms (and dads) who put themselves on the bottom of the to-do list to really ponder it. Sometimes it’s hard to balance everyone’s interests, including your own, but it’s oh so worth it and I can’t express with words how ecstatic I am to see Kim come to this realization as I remember the feeling when I figured it out for myself as well.

I’m about to board for St. Louis. While I’m there I’m also scoping out a few hotels for a possible future FitBloggin‘. I’ve also been tasked with getting the 8-year-old a St. Louis key chain, The 2-year-old a St. Louis book, and The Husband a St. Louis T-shirt. This has become our tradition when I travel without them.

Speaking of, I need to give a HUGE shout-out to The Husband who’s been so amazingly supportive of all my travel adventures recently. He’ll never see this (he doesn’t read the blog) but I couldn’t do any of this without him.

I still can’t believe all of this is happening.

I feel like I’m on autopilot.


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Monday, May 6, 2013

So, You Want to Run a Tough Mudder?

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I’ve run 5 Tough Mudders and have 5 more scheduled this year. To say I’m Mudder obsessed may be an understatement.  Many have asked about training and such, so I decided to do a Tough Mudder brain dump. Here are a few thoughts on training and prep if you are considering one.

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This is the No. 1 question I’ve gotten about Tough Mudders since I started running them last year and it’s a hard one for me to answer.

For my first Mudder I had no idea what to expect. My training consisted of BodyPump (weight training) 2 days a week, 2-3 short runs (< 3 miles), 1 long run (~5 miles), and what I’ll call dynamic training. Click here to see some sample workout videos. 

I was prepared and able to complete the course with help on many of the obstacles.

Four other Tough Mudders later, I train differently and have made tons of progress needing less help on the course than I did that first event.

Now I take CrossFit 4-5 times a week and try to get at least 1 longer run in ranging from 3-6 miles. I’ve also added yoga once a week but it’s hard to be consistent with it.

My suggestion for training is to find something you like to do for overall strength. You will be doing a lot of climbing, jumping and crawling, so something a bit more dynamic than just lifting weights would help immensely. Think boot camp or CrossFit.

In addition to the strength training, start running. All Tough Mudder courses are 10-12 miles so if you’ve ever run a half you’ll be fine on the distance part. If you haven’t have no fear, you never run more than a mile or 2 without an obstacle break. Because of this I actually find the Mudders less grueling than a half. I would minimally work up to at least 5-6 miles in your training routine.

You may also want to train for running and strength together. For example, run a mile and then do a series of push-ups, squats, lunges and sit-ups before running another mile. This will get you used to the run-obstacle-run-obstacle sequence of the event.

There are 2 obstacles that make Tough Mudders really stand out:

The Arctic Enema

Tough Mudder Arctic Enema

You can’t train for this. You just have to bite the bullet and jump into the icy water. Sure, you can fill your tub with ice and practice, but it’s still going to suck on event day. I’d rather only do it when necessary. I’ve jumped into ice water exactly 5 times, which happens to be the number of Mudders I completed in. No additional ice jumps for me, thank you very much!

Electroshock Therapy

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Getting shocked is another thing you can’t really prepare for and is, quite frankly, my least favorite part of the event. My goal is to literally not curse my way through any obstacle with electricity.

I have not yet succeeded.

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Props to those who complete these things in costumes. I honestly don’t know how they do it. I’ve wore the same pair of New Balance running capris — which unfortunately they don’t make anymore — paired with a tight fitted tank that has a built-in bra, and an additional black sports bra.

The key is to wear tight, form-fitting pieces that dry quickly. Once I made the mistake of wearing a cotton tank to a mud run. By the end of the event it was hanging down to my knees.

As for shoes, I’ve always worn an old pair of running shoes, which have survived. I just threw them in the washer with my muddy clothes and they washed right up.

Speaking of, my friend Jimmy, who has run 9 Tough Mudders, finally retired his shoes after our double header.

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That’s right, he has worn the same shoes for 9 Tough Mudders. So I wouldn’t worry about them too much. If you don’t want to deal with the muddy sneaks after the event, you can donate them on site at the Mudder.

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Be prepared to meet some really cool folks. the Tough Mudder community is, for the most part, warm and welcoming. Almost everyone from staff to volunteers to fellow participants has been super nice. There’s very much a feeling of camaraderie and team work. Everyone there is ready to have a good time.

For as many people who participate, Tough Mudders have some of the best organized bag-check areas. Everything is separated by bib number, and I don’t think I’ve ever had to wait more than 5 minutes to drop off or pick up my bag.

Because of that, I don’t fear bringing things with me. I always pack a bag with a towel, change of clothes, and flip flops. You’ll also need some cash, your ID, and phone/camera.

Side note: I just found out there’s a Tough Mudder Lost and Found. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for the GoPro!

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Be prepared to feel like a million bucks when you cross that finish line. They “crown” you with a Tough Mudder head band and you won’t care how cold, muddy or crazy you look. You will wear it proud, as you should.

When you get home, take off your clothes IN the shower unless you want to sweep up rocks and dirt from the bathroom floor. The marker they use to write your number on your head is easily removed with a wash cloth and soap. The bruises may take a bit longer to heal.

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Looks WAY worse than it is. I promise! And remember that was after 2 Mudders!

Overall, my best piece of advice is to HAVE FUN with it. The training, the experience, the mud, the ice bath, even the electric shocks. The point is to challenge and push yourself out of your comfort zone. I’ve seen folks bail on an obstacle because the lines were too long or they didn’t want to get wet.

Really?

You’re running A TOUGH MUDDER for pete’s sake. What’s the point of paying to register if you aren’t going to give it 100 percent.

I won’t lie, I’ve considered skipping an obstacle and then I think, “Why? THIS is why I’m here. I want to see if I can do it. If I fail at least I know I tried.”

Here are a few links to posts and recap videos of the Mudders I’ve run. Let me know if you any any other questions in the comments.


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Thursday, May 2, 2013

2 Days-2 Tough Mudders-2 Minutes

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I’m up entirely to late after one of the most fun, most physically challenging weekends ever!

I did it. I can’t believe I did it! I ran 2 Tough Mudders in TWO DAYS. I am tired, sore, bruised, and proud. Heck, I feel like a ROCK STAR! It honestly took all I had physically and mentally.

Here’s a quick 2 minute video we put together. We had 2 GoPro cameras when we started and only 1 when we ended. Mine was a casualty of the course. :( Here’s what we salvaged from the other one…

Ok, that’s all I have in me tonight. I need sleep!


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Friday, March 15, 2013

Tough Mudder Madness Team Kentucky: Meet Ann

Ann is the second winner of the Tough Mudder Maddness giveway and has also agreed to share her story here on the blog and it’s eerily similar to mine.

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Hi, my name is Ann!  I’m 31 years old and have been married to my wonderful husband, Derrick, for 4 ½ years.  I work as a Pharmacy Technician but I’m in school to become an Ultrasound Technician.  My husband is from Missouri and we lived there for a while before and after getting married but we currently live in Cincinnati, OH where my parents and brother are. We currently live with my mom while I’m going to school.

I’ve struggled with my weight since I was a teenager.  I was never popular in school and I linked that to my appearance, though looking back I was not actually overweight at that time.  I just was not as skinny as the girls who were getting all the attention.   As I explained in my entry in to the Tough Mudder Madness contest, I have yo-yo dieted my entire adult life.  Each time I gain the weight back, it comes with a little more than the time before.  Derrick has also struggled with his weight his whole life.  This past summer we both decided that we really needed and wanted to do something about it, once and for all.  We had so many things we wanted to do together – kayaking, rock climbing, day hiking, etc – and we just couldn’t do those things at our weights and fitness levels. We were missing out on so much!

We found a doctor supervised weight management program in our area and went to an information session in late summer.  We finally joined the program on September 3rd, 2012 and have never looked back.  It has taken a lot of work but we have had a great support system including a behaviorist lead support group, nutritionists and an exercise specialist to help us along the way.  Oh, and we’ve had each other too!  Sometimes I ask myself “What’s different this time? Why is this time the end of the yo-yo dieting?”  The short answer is that everything is different.  I have a support system.  I finally understand what a healthy relationship with food is, and I’m working every day to make and keep that relationship healthy.  I found exercise (and a gym) that I really love!  The list could go on and on.  In the past 6 months I have lost 75 lbs and Derrick has lost 120 lbs.  I’m still working on losing a bit more though I’m not exactly sure how much because my focus has really shifted from the scale to working on my fitness level at this point.  This is even more true now that I have this amazing opportunity to run a Tough Mudder with Roni in October!  I’m so excited to be training for such an amazing event and under such cool circumstances!  That said, I am nervous and even somewhat terrified of what the actual event will hold so I have put together some questions for Roni since she has three Tough Mudders under her belt!

What did you do to train for your first Tough Mudder?  Did you use the training guides provided on their website at all? (Some of that stuff looks pretty intimidating.)

I looked at them a little but mostly did my own thing. For the first Mudder, my training consisted of BodyPump 2 days/week, 2-3 runs a week and 1 day training with a friend where we did a few things from the training. You can see some of that in my training videos on YouTube by clicking here.

After you ran your first Mudder, did you change how you prepared for the second and third ones?

I did but it wasn’t because of any particular reason besides a change in my schedule. It was around that time I was transitioning from my traditional gym to CrossFit and working out with my friend became impossible because of our schedules. So instead of training specifically for the second 2 mudders I decided to just consistently workout any way I could with no particular “Mudder training.” I felt as prepared if not more so for those as well.

Going in to your first Mudder, was there a certain obstacle that you were most nervous about?  Did that one turn out to be the hardest/most scary after you actually did it?

Ohh, that’s a good question. I remember looking at the obstacle list and thinking there was no way I’d be able to do a few of them. So I guess it was more a fear of failure than anything else. And some of them I did fail — I’ve yet to cross the monkey bars without falling in the water or get up the half pipe without a few tries and A LOT of help, but after you do one you’ll realize it’s your attempt at the obstacle that defines your success. You do the best you can and keep trying!

I feel like I should mention that I don’t even look at the obstacle list anymore. I’d rather be surprised while the running the course. It leaves less time for me to stew and worry about them.

Is there an obstacle that you still fear after having completed three events?

Any of them with an electric shock. Hands down. And even though I say I‘m not afraid of heights, the darn jump into the water gets me EVERY TIME!

I have to ask, how bad is the electric shock?  It sounds horrible (but exhilarating)!

lol See above. It sucks but it’s more mental than anything because you KNOW it’s gonna suck and you do it anyway. Unlike other obstacles I think those get harder to do not easier.

What things do you wish someone had told you before you ran your first Mudder?

The only thing that comes to mind is logistics. I was so worried about how to get there, where to park, where to put my stuff, etc. I wish someone told me to CHILL and sign up for the first wave the first day. It’s less crowded, easy to park, no traffic and no lines. My preferred start time will always be Saturday morning at 8AM.


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Thursday, March 14, 2013

Tough Mudder Madness Team Kentucky: Meet Megan

I’m so excited that the winners of the Tough Mudder Maddness giveway I hosted were willing to guest post and introduce themselves on the blog. Inspiring folks was a big reason I held the contest, and I have no doubt these women will do just that with their stories.

I’ve asked them to write a bit about themselves and to ask me any questions they had about the Mudder. Here’s what Megan sent me last week.

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I am 30 years old and live in Indiana in the same town where I was born and raised.  I am married (for 8 years) to my high school sweetheart, Gabe.  We have two amazing kidfaces, Cora and Emmett.  I graduated from Purdue University with a degree in Psychology but right now I am working as an Administrative Assistant.

I’ve been overweight since about the 4th grade.  So really, it just feels like the person that I have always been.  In a random moment in 2007 I stopped at the local gym to become a member.  Because I can’t tell people no, they talked me in to a personal trainer.  I dropped 60 pounds, gained muscle definition and a confidence that I can’t describe.

After having the kids and dealing with anxiety and depression I let myself get back up to about 260 pounds.  I was miserable and unhappy.  I acknowledged that I needed help to get my life back together and I put myself in therapy.  I’ve been working with a therapist for about a year and my mind is in a much better place than it was before.  So now, I’m ready to work on myself physically.

In another random moment, I entered to win this opportunity with Roni.  I never had any confidence that I would actually end up teaming up with her to run a Tough Mudder.  I’m am both excited and terrified.

This isn’t going to be an easy task by any stretch of the imagination.  I weighed in at 229.0 this morning.  That is the lowest that I have been since bringing the kids home from the hospital.  I’m building my support system of family and friends as well as some professionals at the local gym.  There are still moments every day where a little voice in the back of my head tells me that I must be insane….that there is no way that I will ever complete this task….that I might as well go back to being miserable because it is so much easier…

I refuse to listen!  Not this time.

Things I need to know from Roni!!

What do you tell yourself in those moments where something seems impossible?

When things seem impossible it’s because I’m thinking of the end goal instead of the small steps I need to take to achieve it.  Ask me 10 years ago if I thought having 2 kids, working for myself, maintaining a healthy weight, and living in this neighborhood was possible and I would said you were crazy! 6 years ago I didn’t think I could run. Now I have a marathon under my belt. Geesh, 2 years ago I would have thought a Tough Mudder was something just for military muscle men. Now I’ve completed 3 and have 6 more scheduled this year!

I’ve learned since starting this blog that it comes down to the daily choice, the little baby steps that in the moment seem insignificant but over time add up to equal BIG changes.

Now, I can tell you when a Tough Mudder obstacle seems impossible I remind myself that THIS is why I’m here –to push myself out of my comfort zone– so I take a deep breath and give it all I have (sometimes screaming and cursing as I go.) I don’t always succeed in completing it (I have fallen off quite a few obstacle) but I tried and that is the first step of making the impossible possible.

How bad is the electric shock really?

Honestly, it SUCKS! Big time! But when you get out of the obstacle you feel like you can take on the world!

What were you most afraid of for your first Tough Mudder?

I think I was most afraid of simply not being able to do it. I had no idea what to expect so there was the fear of the unknown. What if I couldn’t’ make it up the wall? What it I hurt myself? What if….?  

What were you most excited about for your first?

That I did it! I remember thinking, “Holy crap I did it. I REALLY did it!” Then I realized I didn’t care about the dirt or the mud or how I looked or how tired I was. I was so lost in the moment, actually in the whole event! My confidence was over the roof. I felt like I really could accomplish anything I set my mind to.

How do you think running the Tough Mudder with all of us will be different for you?

This is a GREAT question and one I pondered as I still feel like a rookie. I feel like I’m the one holding people back. I’m the one who needs to be helped. I have big issues being in the more experienced roll and it’s one of the reasons I wanted to do this. It’s another way for me to put myself out of my comfort zone. As cheesy or egotistical this may sound, it’s time for me to lead instead of follow. I’m looking forward to the experience, but it also scares the crap out of me at the same time.

What is the one thing that you would tell all of us as we prepare for this challenge?    

Have confidence and don’t second guess your “right” to be in this event. I felt like (and sometimes still do) I’m not worthy to participate. Things like this are reserved for the super fit. The athletes. The perfect people of the world who never struggled with eating disorders or body image issues.

The truth is, this event was made for us. The folks that have something to prove to themselves. The ones that need a little external nudge to get them to realize they are deserving and capable and worthy of living the life they want.

Bottom line: Don’t hold yourself back!

Stop back tomorrow to meet our second Kentucky Team Member, Ann!


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